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Tarot Spreads to Help You With Family Troubles

Troublesome family situations are an inevitable part of everyone’s life. We all have at least one family member that is problematic for us. A family is supposed to make you feel calm and collected. Yet, that is not always the case.

You deserve to be able to feel comfortable around your family. It can be hard to know what to do in stressful family situations. I suggest that you turn to Tarot for help during these difficult times. In this article, we will look at several Tarot spreads. These tarot spreads will reveal answers to you that will help you with your family troubles. Tarot will help guide you along as you navigate through the problem into calmer waters.

Tarot Spread for Family Issues 1

Tarot spread for relationship problems

This Tarot spread is a little more detailed. It seeks to help you answer a range of questions about your family problem. If you’re not sure what the problem is exactly, this one can help you identify it. Sometimes, with family difficulties, we tend to be unsure of who is causing the problem. It can also be hard to identify who the instigator is. In big families, especially, this problem is not uncommon.

The first card is located at the bottom right-hand corner. It answers the question of who you, the questioner, believe is the cause of the problem. It helps narrow down responsibility and sort through confusing feelings. The first card is an introduction to the rest of the Tarot set, which answers deeper questions.

The second card displays what the true nature of the problem is. To use the above example, let’s say you have a nosy aunt who is always getting in your business. The second card will reveal what it is that she wants from you. It’s not just information. Maybe there’s loneliness involved or some other factor.

The third card shows which extra factors are impacting the situation. Familial problems aren’t just between two people. Inevitably, others will have to take a side. The other members of the family may be causing the situation to worsen. Or, there may be people who are trying to stay out of it, yet by doing so, they are making the problem more unclear.

The fourth card reveals what hidden or unknown influences there are. Every problem has roots somewhere. This family issue may be old. It also may have its roots in something far different than you expected. By knowing all the influencing factors, you can help resolve the problem. The resolution will prevent it from returning.

The fifth card shows the effect that the problem is having on the rest of the family. As I mentioned before, family conflicts aren’t just between two people. Often, others are affected. People don’t want to see their family members fight. The fifth card will show what this conflict is doing to everyone else. You will be able to understand the impact that the argument is having. This could be a motivation to fix the problem.

The sixth card tells you what actions to avoid. There may be things that you are thinking of doing that will actually worsen the problem. For example, you may feel like taking a confrontational tone with your family. You may want to make a scene or be demanding. Tempting though that it, it is probably only going to make things worse. This sixth card will tell you what not to do. Knowing what to avoid will put you on the right track to knowing what to actually go ahead and do.

The seventh card reveals what can be done. The sixth card revealed what needed to be avoided. This card reveals the opposite. It shows you the actions you should take to resolve the situation.

The eighth and final card reveals the outcome. Will this end positively? Or will there still be drama? Only fate can tell, but Tarot can help guide you to seeing Fate’s outcome.This first spread was for Tarot questioners who want a more detailed approach. They need extra information to find out the family problem. This next spread is simpler, and should be used if you already have a good idea of who is causing the problem. This is less of a fact-finding spread. Instead, it is more of a way to guide you into solving the issue.

This first spread was for Tarot questioners who want a more detailed approach. They need extra information to find out the family problem. This next spread is simpler, and should be used if you already have a good idea of who is causing the problem. This is less of a fact-finding spread. Instead, it is more of a way to guide you into solving the issue.

Tarot Spread for Family Issues 2

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Once again, this spread is not difficult. If you have a good idea of the problem, this will serve as a guide to direct you to the right solution.

The first card, at the upper left-hand corner, starts out with a basic question. It answers what the overall status of the family is. What are the family’s overall mood and energy like? I tell my clients that while a family may be made up of many parts, it is still one unit. There is still a general mood to the group. This first card will reveal the family’s general energy, whether positive or negative.

The second card reveals anything you need to know now. It reveals urgent information that pertains to your family. This information could have been overlooked by you. Or, you may not have known it existed. This will help you get a better grip on the problem. Having all the facts will help you resolve the issue.

The second card reveals anything you need to know now. It reveals urgent information that pertains to your family. This information could have been overlooked by you. Or, you may not have known it existed. This will help you get a better grip on the problem. Having all the facts will help you resolve the issue.

The third card answers what influences are affecting the family. These influences come from the outside. There may be external pressures making the problem worse. Family difficulties don’t form in a vacuum. This card will help you see other elements.

The fourth and final card tells you what you should not do. I caution my clients to pay close attention to this card. It tells you how not to make things worse. The situation is precarious. Worsening it could cause permanent damage.

When I see clients with family problems, I use these two main spreads. I believe that they help reveal the family problem. They also give guidance on how to solve it. If you’re experiencing family difficulties, you’re not alone. Whether it’s one problematic family member or many, Tarot will help you get a clear sense of what and what not to do.

Matt
 

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Raisa O'farrill - October 21, 2016

Hi Matt I would love to be chosen for one of your free mini readings. I am experiencing problems at work.
Can you shed some light on this for me?
Thank you, sometimes guidance is needed.
Raisa

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